Hello and good morning guys, welcome back to my website. So, what brings you to here? Your kid? You are annoyed with them? Do you want to know how to control your kid nature and teach them the proper way to act? Do you want to make them more civilized? Well, I think you come to the right place in the right time. Why do I say that? It’s because this day I will try to share some tips on how to take care and control your kid. So, are you curious yet?
Tips For Parents: How To Control Your Kid Nature When They Angry!
Do you ever think that every act also has a consequence to your own self later? Do you ever think that the best way to take care of your kid is by adoring them? Well, I bet you never think too far, you never know what is the consequences of your actions. Do you ever realize that you are destroying your own kid future? I bet you will never know it. However, that’s what will happen if you adore your kid too much. They will grow up out of your parental control. They will start to act selfishly and not even bother about someone else problem. Until finally they will die lonely, without anyone to accompany him.
I bet as a parent, you won’t let such thing like that to happen to your beloved one, right? That’s why, this day, I bring up this topic to you. I will try to give some of my tips on ways to control anger by making a use of your kid anger now!
Resist your own anger!
By telling them if that’s nothing that can be solved by getting at the other people, we also teach them to respect the other. Because kids will copy everything that you have done, if you shout at them, they will learn to shout at you. Well, if you talk nicely to them, they will also learn how to talk nicely to you.
Try to guide the behavior but not punishing!
Every punishment like Spanking their butt, timeouts, consequences, and shaming isn’t giving kids the help they need with their emotion. Well, the result that they learn after all of that punishment is, the emotion that drove them to “misbehave” are bad. So, in order to prevent it from happening again, they will try to repress those emotions, and their emotion backpack even getting more full than before. That’s one of the reasons that punishment actually leads to more misbehavior.
Help your child to feel safe enough to feel his or her emotions!
Your angry child is not a bad person, but a hurting, very young human. When kids aren’t controlling their emotions, it’s because they can’t, at that moment. If you can stay compassionate, your child will feel safe enough to surface, feel and express the tears and fears that are driving his anger and acting out. If you can help him cry, those feelings will evaporate and the anger and all of those things that come with that anger will vanish too.
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